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The 2009 Latin Americas Summit Summary.

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009

The progressive gates to a solid foundation built on harmony and acceptance of other nations:

President Obama is moving forward in his presidency in the right manner with his style of governing. As a progressive leader with rational foresight, he understands the importance of dialog and respecting other nations and their differences. In doing so, he has made major strides in repairing the damage done by the previous administration.

The key issue here is ultimately that all people are the same no matter where they hail from. They experience the same emotions as all human beings do. Where government dignitaries are concerned, it is ever so pertinent that their dignity is preserved and not made a mockery of, if they are to welcome the opposing government perhaps previously an enemy, to see the better sense of open and honest dialog.

Our current administration led by President Obama is willing to go that extra step to extend the hand of friendship, respect, and understanding toward the opposing nation, which is a great gesture coming from a true leader and great nation. With such a gesture the doors can open, the dialog can resume, and a meeting of common minds can be achieved. The opposing side will reciprocate accordingly and be willing to accept our generous gesture of friendship. Here then, a middle ground can be created for the rebuilding of a much more solid foundation for both nations to work in harmony and acceptance of each other’s differences, core values, and mindsets.

They will see that America is not built on false pride but rather has the wisdom to acknowledge its mistakes and be willing to repair the damage. They will also see that America can acknowledge its mistake of being short-sighted and tunnel-versioned and is humble enough to come forth as a true leader can, to bridge the gap of differences in a progressive and positive manner.

In summary, President Obama is living up to his pledge to be the leader that our nation has long sought, and when his tenure in office is over – he will be remembered as one of the greatest leaders of our time, one who was successful in uniting all factions and nations to see and appreciate the value of peace and harmony, which is ever so necessary if our world is to survive without further discord.

President Obama will be remembered as the leader who led our nation away from strife and into the arms of peaceful acceptance by every nation in the world, all of which honor him as the most respected leader of our time. They will acknowledge that he has the traits of a true leader who has earned and deserves the respect, the admiration, and the hand of friendship from every world leader whom in the past had turned away from America and its people.

Ultimately, President Obama will have built a solid foundation for all of America to be proud of and to rejoice in, one where the future generations of all nations will again look at America to lead and be the example they can follow.

How to get and keep long term friendships

Wednesday, March 25th, 2009

Introduction

Human beings sometimes struggle to be liked, respected and loved and they are at a lost as to the secret of how to achieve such an endeavor.

The secret is pretty simple and achievable in all of your relationships once you master the secret art. See the steps below and make the effort to work on the steps listed, and you will see your life improve in leaps and bounds.

The ultimate rewards coming your way will be an abundance of friends and even family members and peers who will shower you with the respect you desire and the love you seek.

Even an enemy can become a friend if you master this secret and practice it in your daily living.

Suggestive Steps:

Step One
You must have a sincere desire to look within yourself and make some very needed changes. Then, be ready to discipline your mind and subconscious to start to accept those changes within your own mind. This is the most difficult step as it will take time and energy to look within yourself. You might not like what you see and then to make the changes you need to make.

Step Two
Now that you have prepped your mind and subconscious to handle this challenge, you can proceed to make close observations of your own behavior. Observe how your react to the people around you – namely your co-workers, your family, your spouse, and even your children. If you find that you are always focusing on a negative trend in your daily speech, actions and reactions then you need to stop that behavior and tell yourself not to feed into such a negative mode.

Step Three
Tell your mind and subconscious to refuse to be drawn into any and all negative flow and avoid acting and reacting negatively in your daily life. Train your mind and subconscious to only accept and work at giving out a positive flow regardless how difficult it may seem.

Step Four
If you find step 3 to be difficult to do, then say this mantra every night just before falling asleep: “I will stay in a positive flow and maintain positive thoughts, speech and actions in my daily life even when I am faced with negativity.”

Step Five
As you say this mantra nightly, you will force your subconscious to accept that mode of thinking. Once that flow has taken seed, you will start to see the inner changes within yourself. You will start to find ways to speak in a positive fashion, even to the most negative of individuals that cross your path in your daily life or the ones that have a close relationship with you as in your personal life.

Step Six
You will start to learn and master ways to always think, act and react in a positive fashion and counter all negativity fluidly, without allowing such negativity to affect you. You will also learn to turn negativity into a positive flow. During this transitional period of self-adjustment, you must consistently remember to make a mental tally of how often you begin to say things in a positive fashion, act in a positive fashion or re-act in a positive fashion. Make a note of the responses you get when you alter your speech, behavior and your reactions. The perfect example is, as they say, “The cup is half full and not half empty.”

Step Seven
Once you have mastered step 6, you will have broken through the barrier of being an obstacle to yourself. You will have learned the secret and the art of how to build the best friendships, the strongest relationships and even the most loving ones. You will also find that you have gained the respect, the friendships, and the love that had escaped you in the past and maybe even the recognition you had sought in your work environment and from your peers. You will have become a very likable person and sought by many to be included in their many gatherings and doings.

Step Eight
Ultimately, you will also benefit by being relieved of a lot of self-induced stress from feeding into all the negativity around you. You will find that people around you will start to react in a positive fashion and extend the same like positive treatment toward you thereby a win-win situation for everyone. Lastly even your enemies will have a change of heart and they might start to see what a truly fine individual you are, and extend their hand of friendship to you.

Overall Tips & Warnings

For this secret art to work, you must be ready to commit your whole heart and soul into this undertaking to achieve success in this area. You must consciously work on yourself on a daily basis to become this new you. The many rewards that can come your way might even surprise you.

Individuals that do not train themselves to have consideration, compassion, understanding and kindness to their fellow men might find that this art would be a difficult one for them to master.